2.28.2008
threat & warning
saw the following post on gim's site,
thought it was a good one & hence posting it here...
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In loving relationships,
people warn one another of the
inevitable consequences of foolish behavior.
In unhealthy relationships,
people threaten one another with punishment
if they fail to live up to unreasonable demands.
Warnings are expression of love;
Threats are expression of control.
Posted by jing at 2/28/2008 01:57:00 PM
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2.17.2008
v'day 2008
some of the bouquets i did for this year... pretty??? hahaha...i think i managed to balance quality and profit quite well this time (^-^)v
a few testimonials i received (i didn't receive any complaints, yay~!!! lol):
zp: "i saw the flowers, very nice. good job."
k: "hey juz to let u know dat yr flowers r v nice, my wife likes them."
d: "hey, very nice! wa, u make the flowers look expensive."
this is what makes arranging flowers happy;
i can help someone make their loved ones happy.
that makes me happy. (^.^)
Posted by jing at 2/17/2008 09:55:00 AM
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2.06.2008
---, 2008 -- cny '--{@
for grandma:
for aunt jass:
for xiaogu:
hopefully it's getting better...hahaha...u think?
Posted by jing at 2/06/2008 11:14:00 PM
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2.03.2008
eh???
apparently i said something to gim before which i obviously don't recall,but she does...and she used what i said to her back at me...
what was shocking:
1 - huh?!?!! i said that??? sure or not? it came from me?
2 - she still remembers what i said~!!?!?
here's the gist of our conversation quite some time ago...
gim: "it's a pity it's not him."
me: "no, u're wrong, when u say that u r not trusting God
and that He has the best plan for you."
somehow, at this point, i just don't see me saying things like that...
hence, all the more it felt strange when she reminded me of
what i said to her previously.
but i'm glad she threw that statement back at me yesterday.
really apt for now...
grieve for the loss,
but be comforted that she's with God now.
i guess it's no pity for He knows what's best.
goodbye my friend.
Amen.